有没有疑惑过那个帅哥是否在和你调情？十大信号，教你辨别他是否对你有兴趣。
1.甜美的微笑
一个甜美的微笑的确是一个好的信号，说到调情，它也是一个男人对你有兴趣的最可靠的信号之一。如果你注意到他在朝你微笑，那他很有可能喜欢你，并且想要接近你。或许他只是害羞，所以为什么不通过主动接近他来向他展示你的自信和勇气呢？当然，如果你喜欢他的话。毕竟，你去主动接近一个男人也没什么好害臊的。只管朝他微笑，主动和他聊聊，但不要尝试欲擒故纵。欲擒故纵是个很好的催化剂，但是男人们经常厌烦这个。
2.害羞的脸红
或许你知道和害羞的男人调情是有多困难，但这并不意味着你应该拒绝这类男人。如果你注意到一个男人在你身边会脸红，这就是他想要和你调情的最明显的信号之一。但是，不仅是害羞的男人会脸红，任何男人在他看到漂亮女人的时候都会脸红。脸红是一种我们不能控制的身体机能，如果他在你身边会脸红，那他一定是喜欢你。
3.眼神交流
这个信号有点难以辨别，但一定是值得注意的。眼神交流在交流过程中是很重要的，我们需要尽可能多地使用这种身体语言。根据一个男人和你保持眼神交流的时间长短，你可以判断出他是否喜欢你。如果他比一般人看你的时间更长，这可能就是他对你感兴趣的信号。我们都会在调情时眉目传情，对吧？对男人来说也一样，如果一个男人只是很快看了你一眼，他也可能在和你调情，只是他有点害羞。
4.镜像反应
有时候男人会不知不觉地模仿女人的动作。从眨眼频率到说话方式，镜像反应是他在和你调情的另一大信号。例如，你笑的时候他也笑。这是因为我们很自然地就会模仿我们喜欢的东西。另外，很多单身交友网站会建议男人在和女人调情的时候使用镜像技术，或许你的他也在这么做。
5.两手叉腰
如果他两手叉腰地站着或者把他的大拇指放在腰带环里，那他可能对你有兴趣。他想通过这种方式向你展示他是一个自信，有男子气概的人。我个人并不喜欢男人在调情时使用这招，但它仍是调情信号之一。
6.暧昧的接触
如果你的心上人抚摸你，那肯定是他喜欢你的一个信号。但是，当一个男人意外地触摸了你，这绝对是要留心的另一信号。这意味着这个男人正试图吸引你的注意并找借口和你搭讪。你喜欢他吗？如果喜欢，大胆摸回去！大多数女孩忽视了这一重要信号，但是你不应该。毕竟，他可能成为你的丈夫！
7.脑袋倾斜
一个男人歪了歪脑袋也可能意味着他喜欢你。如果他朝你歪脑袋，这意味着他在专心听你说的每个字。这也意味着他很了解你在讲的东西，对和你谈话非常感兴趣。我喜欢那种有个男人听我倾诉的奇妙感觉。我总是很重视这点，即使我对那个男人没兴趣。
8.放大的瞳孔
有时候我们的眼睛在我们不情愿的时候出卖了我们。当我们被某人或某事吸引，我们的瞳孔就会放大。反之，则会缩小。如果你注意到那个男人的瞳孔在不断扩大，这是他非常喜欢你并对你非常有兴趣的最明显的信号之一。
9.挑起的眉毛
你的心上人可能会因为喜欢你而在你身边目光闪躲。也可能保持一点眉毛的上扬。如果他在你说话的时候眼睛扩大，眉毛上扬，那这就是个他在和你调情的明确信号。仔细看，你一定会发现！
10.坐立不安
你会在你喜欢的男人身边坐立不安吗？我敢肯定你会，这没关系。你只是紧张，事实上，这是一种好的紧张。所有的一切都是关于期望，因为你不知道他是否对你有兴趣。如果你看到他坐立难安，这是因为他对你感兴趣并且对于和你搭讪有点紧张。
既然你现在知道了他在跟你调情的信号，还在等什么？大胆回应吧，或许今晚你就会有场美好的约会。你还知道其它我应该列在这张单子上的调情信号吗？
Ever wonder if that nice guy is flirting with you? There are a few proven ways that can tell you if he is interested in you.
1. Lovely smile
A lovely smile is actually a good sign and, when it comes to flirting, it’s one of the surest signs he is interested in you. If you notice that he is smiling at you, there’s a good chance he likes you and wants to approach you. Maybe he is shy, so why not show him your confidence and courage by approaching him first? Of course, if you like him. After all, there is nothing to be ashamed of if you approach a man first. Just smile back, initiate a conversation with him and don’t try to play hard to get. Playing hard to get is a great boost, but often it’s a big turn off for guys.
2. Shy blush
Perhaps you know how it’s difficult to flirt with shy guys, but it doesn’t mean that you should avoid such type of man. If you notice that a guy blushes around you, this is one of the most obvious signs he is trying to flirt with you. However, not only do shy guys blush, any guy can actually blush when he sees a beautiful girl. Blushing is a bodily function that we can’t control and if he blushes around you, he certainly likes you.
3. Eye contact
This sign is a little bit tricky, but surely worth paying attention to. Eye contact is important during communication and we need to use this form of body language as often as we can. Depending on how long a man holds an eye contact with you, you can find out whether or not he likes you. If he holds an eye contact with you for longer than an average person, it might be a sign he is interested in you. We all make an eye contact when flirting, right? It’s the same for guys. If a guy holds a short eye contact, he might also flirt with you, he is just a bit shy.
4. Mirroring
Sometimes men mirror woman’s actions without even knowing it. Mirroring is another sign he is flirting with you. This ranges from mirroring blink rates to mirroring manner of speaking. For instance, you are laughing and he is laughing as well. The thing is, it’s natural for us to mirror something we love. Besides, a lot of singles dating websites advise guys to use mirroring technique when flirting with girls, maybe your crush does this too.
5. Hands on hips
If he stands with his hands on the hips or places the thumbs in the belt loops, he might be interested in you. This way, he is trying to show you he is a confident man and simply true macho. I personally don’t like when guys use this way while flirting with girls, but still it’s one of the signs he is flirting with you.
6. A flirting touch
If your crush touches you, it’s definitely a sign he likes you. But, when a guy touches you accidentally, this is absolutely another sign to watch for. It means the guy is trying to get your attention and find any excuse to continue conversation with you. Do you like that guy? If yes, flirt back! Most girls ignore this important sign, but you shouldn’t do it. After all, he might be your hubby!
7. Head Tilts
The way a man tilts his head can also signify that he likes you. If he tilts the head towards you, this means he’s listening attentively to each word you say. This also means he’s really attuned to what you are talking about and he’s really interested in conversation with you. I love that amazing feeling when a man is listening to me. I always appreciate it, even if I’m not interested in that man.
8. Dilated pupils
Sometimes our eyes give us away when we don’t want them to. When we are attracted to someone or something our pupils dilate and they become larger. When we don’t like someone or something, our pupils contract. If you notice that the eyes of the guy keep dilating, it’s one of the most obvious signs he adores you and is highly interested in you.
9. Raised eyebrows
Your crush may hide his eyes when he is around you because he likes you. He can keep his eyebrows a little bit raised as well. If his eyes are widened and his eyebrows remain raised while you’re talking, this is definite sign he is flirting with you. Watch for it and you’ll surely see it!
10. Fidgeting
Do you fidget when you are around the guy you like? I’m pretty sure you do and it’s okay. You are just nervous and it’s actually a good nervous. It’s all about expectation since you don’t know whether or not he is interested in you. If you see him fidgeting, this is because he’s interested in you and he is a bit nervous to start conversation with you.
Now that you’re aware of the signs he is flirting with you, what are you waiting for? Start flirting back and maybe you will have a nice date tonight. Do you know any other signs of flirting that I should have added to this list?
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